Have you ever had threesome hookup before? Why did you do it with? How was that experience? Do you like it? I just have so much to talk to other swinger couples and singles, because now, I am one of them too. Recently, I just had a threesome hookup with my boyfriend. I would love to share it with other like-minded couples or swinger singles. I would also like to ask for some advice.
Last week, my boyfriend and I lost our threesome virginity to a pretty girl we found in a tinder threesome dating app. Before that, my boyfriend and I have been thinking about threesome for nearly half a year. We wanted to make sure having a threesome hookup won't influence our relationship. So we took it very cautiously. We read many threesomes essays and we did everything accordingly. We had many discussions over it and we did everything together. As expected, we had a wonderful threesome experience. We both loved it so much and we also agreed that we are going to make it a regular thing.
After it, there are two things we are worried about.
First, threesome is surely dreamy, but on the other hand, I am afraid that it might eat our relationship away. I heard many stories about loving couples having threesome and living a swinger lifestyle. The endings of those stories are not very good. I think they have very good points. Once you make threesome a regular thing, it will change your relationship. Not everyone can keep up with open relationship. Open relationship can often lead to less care and love between lovers. I am afraid that once we are in an open relationship, we might find each other less important ad eventually lead to break up.
Second, the girl we had a threesome with, we both like her very much. After she left, my boyfriend brought up an idea that we should ask her if she would like to be our regular guest. In other words, we would like to have a threesome party with her regularly. I didn't agree, nor refuse it. I like that girl and I have no problem with making her our regular guest, but I am worried that with time goes by, we might be emotionally attached. What if she falls in love with my boyfriend? What if my boyfriend falls in love with her? What if they cheat on me? It scares me just thinking about it. What do you think I should do?
I would also like to say something to couples and singles who have never had threesome but want to try it. For singles, there is nothing can stop you from trying it. Just one thing to bear in mind, be careful for your safety, because you are alone and they are two persons. For couples, if you really want to try it, go ahead. But make sure you love each other very much.